FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions
What types of experiences do you offer?
I offer a wide range of transformative experiences—from psychological domination and impact play to social indulgences. View the full list of experiences here.
I’m new to this. What should I expect?
Expect structure, clarity, and presence. I lead with intention and precision. If you're open, respectful, and attentive, I will shape the experience to suit your level and desires—with firm boundaries and a guiding hand.
Where do you host?
I host in clean, private, fully equipped dungeon spaces in Manhattan and Brooklyn. Each space is aesthetic, discreet, and thoughtfully appointed to support immersive engagement. Returning clients may choose to meet in a 4 or 5 star hotel room for an outcall.
I visit San Francisco quarterly, where I host experiences in both dungeon spaces and in hotel rooms.
What are your favorite activities?
I’m drawn to activities that push physical and psychological boundaries—especially those involving CBT, fisting, impact, and med play like needles or scalpels. I enjoy the ritual of feminization, sissification, cuckolding, and financial domination, particularly when layered with humiliation, degradation, and objectification. You may also find yourself mummified, tickled, or pissed on—depending on what amuses me that day.
How do I apply to serve you?
Begin with the application form. Thoughtfulness, honesty, and attention to detail are noted. Applications that are rushed, vague, or disrespectful will be ignored.
What happens after I apply?
If our interests align, I will follow up by email with the next steps within 48 hours. If you don’t hear from me, either my message landed in your spam, or you were not a fit at this time. I do not provide feedback on declined applications.
What is the screening process like?
The application asks for two provider references (names, websites, and contact info).
If you don’t have references, I will request the following:
- Employment verification (e.g., LinkedIn, work website)
- Social Verification (e.g.,Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn)
Screening is non-negotiable. Your discretion will be respected, as I expect mine to be.
What is your tribute rate?
The final rate depends on the nature of the experience, its length, required preparation, and any bespoke requests. Extended engagements and specialized experiences are quoted accordingly. Explore your options and rates here.
Can I book the day of?
I require a minimum of 24–48 hours’ notice for all new clients. Every experience is designed with care and intention. Same-day requests will likely be declined.
How should I prepare?
Arrive clean—body, breath, and bottom
Be freshly shaven, well-groomed, and rested
Bring tribute in cash, placed in an unsealed envelope
Read all emails, my website, and protocol before arriving
Arrive on time, not early
Your preparation is a reflection of your respect. Be attractive to me!
I’m not a submissive. Will you still see me?
Yes. I enjoy experiences with fetishists, bottoms, and those who crave structure, sensation, or psychological engagement without a traditional D/s dynamic. Labels are optional!
What are your health & safety protocols?
I am fully vaccinated against COVID-19 and follow strict cleaning practices before and after each experience. If you are ill or exposed, stay home—I will honor your deposit if you notify me in advance.
I don’t live in NYC or SF. Can I still serve you?
Yes—via Fly Me to You (FMTY) arrangements. If you're serious, complete the application and propose dates and logistics. I only travel for experiences worth my time.
For those hoping to serve me from afar, you may also confess your dirty secrets and indulge in fantasy via text and phone on SextPanther and NiteFlirt. I prefer scheduled chats, so plan ahead if you want my full attention.
May I ask you to wear something special?
You may make outfit requests in your application. Custom, latex, or specialty looks may require an additional tribute. I reserve full discretion over how I present myself.
How do I get your attention?
A detailed application that considers my interests and boundaries thoughtfully.
A generous tribute or gift.
Demonstrating that you’ve read my site and followed instructions. Show me that you value my time—I will return the favor. See my wishlist.
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